Dear Blog
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I know it's been a while, okay a LONG while, please forgive me for I have strayed.  I have been distracted, to say the least  and on the verge of unfaithfulness and for that I am gravely ashamed.

I have forsaken Twitter.  I couldn't handle the incessant question, "What are you doing?"  It was always a one-sided conversation, so predictable.  We still talk but not as much.   There is another, Facebook, I'm sure you've heard of him? He's a socialite.  I've made a lot of friends and he's helped me reconnect with old friends too.  Exciting!

I think of you often, I really do.  I've been busy writing a story, perhaps mostly for myself.  My friend Tandi jokingly said we should write our own vampire story, like our novels from our high school days only those were about our favorite band.  Cheesy, I know.  I've been wanting to write stories again so I jumped in feet first.  I never jump feet first into anything.  It was exciting to get back in the groove.  I've missed it, of course, it's nothing like blogging but writing none the less.

If that weren't enough I picked up reading again.  As mentioned here before I read the Twilight saga then read it again.  I went on to the Sookie Stackhouse Southern Vampire Mystery series.  Yes, more vampires.  I've always liked vampires.  I read the Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice so that was under my belt and now I've added more.  So, I'm almost done with the Stackhouse series, one more book unless Harris continues it. 

I'm currently trying to read two books right now.  I'm reading "City of Bones" online for free.  It's interesting so far.  Also, I've joined a book club.  Our first book is "The Kite Runner."  At first I thought it was taking me down the "Slum dog Millionaire" path so I was very hesitant to read it.  I'm glad I pushed on.

Our first Book club meeting is August 15th so I have a deadline to meet.  I finished a Stackhouse novel in one and a half day so I'm not too concerned, although The Kite Runner isn't about Afghan vampires so it may take me a while longer.

SO!  I've been busy as you can plainly see. My journals are missing my penned thoughts.  So many demands on my time but please understand I'm doing things I really enjoy.  Perhaps I'm being selfish trying to do it all at once.  It's gotten really bad.  Just this afternoon I was putting a diaper cake together while reading City of Bones online AND (yes there is an AND) I had "Enchanted" playing on the tv via Netflix.  I must have a problem.  Selfish I tell you.

I will visit... soon.

Candes




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New Moon Trailer
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This looks promising.  I just hope Kristen Stewart can put more emotion into her acting other than the despondent, sighing teenage angst.  I'm looking forward to seeing what a little more money can do for the Twilight series.



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I'm BaaaaaAAAAK
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Much to my embarrassment I was sucked into the Twilight fury, the jet stream, as if the popularity was on a downward curve.  I tried to resist the draw, passing it off as some high school fad but I must admit I'm a sucker for vampires. LOL 

It didn't help that about a week ago I watched the Twilight movie at my sister's house.  The movie left soooo many holes and so many questions that I KNEW I had to read the books to find out what was behind all the tension between Bella and Edward.  Mmmm ... Edward.  

I had been a fan of Anne Rice's, The Vampire Chronicles until it got too weird for me.  I can't remember if I had stopped after reading Queen of the Damned but it's the last book I recall in the series.  It was more geared towards adults.  So did I want to take this excursion and go back to high school?  Oh yeeeeah.

I devoured the Twilight series in  6 or 7 days.  My friend Carrie told me about Midnight Sun, Edward's perspective from the first book.  It was online, not yet published.  Some "friend" of Stephanie Meyer's published an unfinished manuscript without permission.  On Stephanie's official website I found the permitted draft, 264 glorious pages. 

It's still under construction but thankfully after MUCH protest Stephanie WILL publish Midnight Sun.  When?  I don't know and even though I just finished the draft I WILL buy this companion book.  Todd won't appreciate that.  I've been selfishly absorbed with the saga so much so that things have suffered a bit around the hous
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So, I'm back, back to blogging..



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Lil' Miss Suzy
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Hi, I’m Lil’Miss Suzy Homemaker, or so I’ve been told lately.  To what do I owe this title to you ask?  Perhaps you know if you follow me on Facebook or Twitter but I’ve been busy in the kitchen.

It all started with a rather LARGE bag of ping-pong sized Key Limes my husband brought home one night.  Why did he buy these I have no idea and nor did I ask but now I am wondering. Hmmm?  I digress.

Todd tells me I need to do something with those limes because they are going to go bad real soon and why not make a key lime pie.  (His scheme all along) SURE!  I’ve never done it but it can’t be THAT hard, right??  Wrong. 

Who would have thought ping-pong sized limes would take me 30 minutes to squeeze just one cup of precious juice?  Who, I ask WHO?  I credit my naiveté for pushing onward and tackling Emeril’s recipe.

So yeah, I used the whole bag but 2 flippin’ limes, TWO, to get 1 cup of juice.  My fingers actually pruned up from all the squeezing.  The rest of the recipe was a breeze. 

Now I understand why the dessert costs so much.  The pie came out awesome!  BOY was it tart but oh so delicious.

Besides trying my hand at Key Lime Pie I decided to try out making jam.  There was this great sell on blackberries so heck, why not?  I found a “no cook” packet from Ball, purchased some freezer containers and headed home. 

I got the boys involved, which by the way made the process loooooonger but I’m making memories, right?  Let’s hope they DO remember.  Did I take pictures? No, may be next time.  I have no time to scrapbook these days. *sniff*

My latest Suzy moment was baking two loaves of banana bread.  It would have been three but it really is important to add ALL of the flour the recipe calls for.  (How did I miss that?)

When you look in the oven and see your BREAD boiling and bubbling ya know something isn’t right.  Thankfully I had plenty of banana’s overly ripe.  I put them out of their misery.

Oh, the day before yesterday, I made a chocolate chip crust, cream cheese, cherry-pie filling concoction simply because I had all the ingredients AND tonight I made Feta stuffed hamburgers with a spring salad that included red onions, mescaline and arugula fresh from our garden.

Tomorrow is another day and I may be making pumpkin bread, which is normally reserved for Thanksgiving and Christmas but I have a can of pumpkin puree that needs to be used.

Take THAT Miss Suzy!  I’m spent.  Good night all.  I hope your Easter was fun and blessed!

PS – I have more coupons and small samples of Revitalift to giveaway.  Stay tuned.


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Lessons from the Garden
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As you know, the boys and I have started gardening.  Here in Texas we've been experiencing Spring like weather and it's been wonderful.  We definitely get out and enjoy those days and most times we're in the garden. 

Gardening has been a passion of mine since we bought this house, our first house.  When Tucker came along I was sucked in to the Mother Land of what seemed like no return.  I abandoned gardening to grow a different kind of bean er.... being. 

Now that both boys are semi manageable I feel "fairly" confident to take them in to the garden and get back in touch with my roots.  The other day I did just that.  I had to prune a lot of old growth to clean up the garden area.

The Garden area consists of many flower beds and a pond.  A small pond that seems to attracts rocks and sticks or anything little boys can think to throw in.  Several times I had to tell both boys to STOP throwing rocks in "... you'll scare the fish"  IF that were not enough they would lean perilously over the edge to touch the water.  Our pond is barely 3 feet deep but deep enough to drown in.

So, after several stern warnings I had had enough. "If you can't follow instructions you have to leave the garden!"  I stormed after them, ushering them through the gate and out of the garden.  I banished them to the play yard, locking them out of the garden and as I did so the thought occured to me that perhaps that is what it was like in the FIRST garden ever since Man's creation. 

God banished Adam and Eve for not following instructions.  They ate of the forbidden fruit and my boys continued to lean over the rocks to touch the treacherous water, not to mention it was icky and filled with who knows what!

God is good at showing us glimpses of what His love for us is like through our children.   Unconditional and oh so deep, trying but true. 

I apologize for the MANY typos.  We're about to make mud pies and typing this outside I cannot see clearly for the glare.  I will be back to clean it up.

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We've been experiencing some Spring like weather here in my part of Texas.  I've introduced gardening to the boys and Tucker seems to like it.  Carsen likes to play in the dirt but did participate in helping start some vegetable seeds.

Tucker had seen one too many time lapsed shows of plants growing and totally expected our seeds to start growing before his eyes.  Cute.  He's been patient and it's paying off.  He's so excited to see our seeds sprouting.

 
Here are some bush bean seedlings poking their little heads out.  It's so exciting to see the miraculous growth every day now that they've reached this stage.
 

 
Here's the bush beans again and the second picture is the cucumbers, lots of cucumbers or squash.  The pole beans are taking a bit longer to sprout but they're finally coming alive.

All these wonderful seeds are going in a communal garden Todd and I will be building in our neighbor's back yard.  Bill and Debbie will be helping and we'll each share in watering the garden, taking care of it and harvesting.

Their yard has much more sunlight and much more space.  It's great that they don't use the back yard except for grilling so they are just as excited to see this project get under way as we are.

Since Todd and I enjoy creating garden spaces we're not just going to throw garden beds together.  We'll incorporate seating and spots for flowers.  BIG plans ahead but being a SAHM I have plenty of time to get this started.

We've already cut out a spot in our shared fence for a gate and I've dug 6 holes for posts in our first garden bed.  That post hole digger is HEAVY!  6 more to go and two beds will be ready to install.

Here are some views of our yard that I took today.  Enjoy!

 



 

 

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First Month in Review
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I have now been a SAHM for one whole month.  I have never been so busy in my life.  I wonder how I even managed to have a full time job and a house.  I can say the honeymoon stage wore off after week two when I was craving adult conversation and a place where people don't call me, "mommy."

I don't miss work but I miss the ladies I was friends with.  Not to worry though, we still talk on IM and our first lunch date is next week barring any health issues.  I'm looking forward to it.

I do miss my talk radio guys Glenn Beck and Rush Limbaugh.  *sigh* I'm trying to have some semblance of a routine - ha routine -  I "try" to do some laundry on Monday's and may be some cardio exercise (which I missed doing today).  On Sunday's I've decided not to do much work on my household chores.  Not much of a routine but that's as far as I've come.

1.  Did anyone tell me I'd be forever cleaning my kitchen?? It's like I am NEVER finished.  Never! 
2.  As much time as the boys and I spend together in one week they STILL want Mommy. 

3.  I wish I knew how this play group stuff worked.  I finally joined a group, a big one,          
     and they keep very active.  So active that many play dates fill up and we can't go.  At least we can     go  to the age specified group. 

Speaking of play dates... Our first play date was at Live Oak Park just 5 minutes from our house.  The day was foggy and the equipment wet and slippery and a bit cool. 

The boys had a blast and I got to meet some of the moms.  I really surprised myself.  I didn't find a wall to hold up (ok I was at a park but you know what I mean.)  I stepped up and introduced myself.    There are lots of interesting ladies.

It's late and I need my rest.  Stay tuned more to come.


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Married White Female...
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January 22, 2009

 

Slowly I feel the honeymoon stage of getting my feet wet as a SAHM is coming to a close.

May be it was at the moment Tucker said, “Mom, I want my friends from school to come to my house.”  My heart sank.  He’s bored. 

Now I HAVE to connect with a play date group.  I’ve heard so many things about play groups and many were not so flattering. 

I’ve heard of click-ish groups.  There were groups that snub you if you can’t meet 100% of the times they do.  I’m 40 years old, who has time for high school antics?

I did a quick search from some links my friends had passed on.  I felt like I was entering the dating scene.  I am looking for the right fit.

There were a couple of groups that I would have to fill out applications for.  No big deal. One group had 51 or so members.  Another had reached its max of 60! Really, 60? There were some groups that only went up to 3years old.  I have a 4 year old.

So, I have to put myself out there.  Married White Female seeking companionship… for my kids.

I need to polish up my profile, meet up with some of these groups and test the waters.

This is SO not me.  My kids are stretching me beyond my comfort zone.  Love ya boys!

I'm naturally shy.  I'm a Christian with a bit of an edge.  Some may say I should dress my age but what does THAT look like?  I wear jeans w/ graphic tees sometimes w/ ponytails.  SOMEBODY tell me when I get to the point where I can't pull off that look any more. 

So what should I wear? I should be myself but take the nose piercing off and cover the tattoos, right?  Okay, okay, I don't have a piercing OR a tattoo BUT I'd like 'em.

I'm nervous... anxious.  I'd rather NOT do this but it's for the children. 


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Captian's Log...
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Week 1 -  My first week as a SAHM - (Stay At Home Mom) was rather interesting. 

Mistake #1 - Within hours of being awake, dressed and fed I was already muttering idle threats to Tucker, "I'm taking you back to school!".


It felt like I spent the whole morning just making breakfast, feeding the boys, cleaning up AFTER the boys then cleaning the kitchen. 

Note to Self:  Don't spend TOO much time getting dressed and ready before starting the day.

Mistake #2 - Making a grocery list and cutting coupons in a hurry to get out the front door in a decent hour. By 11am I was leaving the house.

Note to self:  Make list and cut coupons out the night before.

Mistake #3 - Grocery Shopping too close to Carsen's nap time.  I was just ASKING for trouble or a child melting down in the check out lane.  I was THAT mother in the grocery store with whacked out kids to which I had no control over.  A stellar moment.

Note to Self:  Set aside Thursday afternoons to grocery shop.  Sam's Mom works from home that day.  I'm off. Woo hoo!

By 2:30pm the after-school-care kicked in.  My neighbor's son came home from school.  The boys were thrilled to see "Sam."  He did his homework and then they played.

Day 2 was much better.  Tucker and I were behaving well and Carsen was manageable.  I felt like there was hope.

Day 3 The boys and I went for a walk after breakfast.  It was so nice to be out in the sun on a leisurely walk.

Thursday and Friday we went out of town for a funeral in Houston and stayed in a hotel for the first time.  The boys loved it.  Todd encouraged them to jump on the beds.  We snacked late into the night and watched cable.  Carsen didn't go down right away but eventually he fell asleep in his pack-n-play.

Needless to say,  we have survived.

I have a lot to learn.  I'm still trying to find my Groove, so to speak.  I feel like I've been doing laundry forever but want to get to the bottom of it so I can develop some sort of routine to stay on top of it.  So far so good.  My next project is the desk.  LOT's of filing and storing of things. 

I will say, I don't feel like I've gotten to talk much today.  I feel quiet inside... and Todd had to work late. *sigh*  May be I'll call my sis.  LOL I can't believe I just typed that.  How stereotypical is THAT?  Oy!

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Gotta Start the New Year Right! Eat Ice Cream.
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I just got word that my dear friend Baskin Robbins is featuring a new line of ice creams that are BRight choices for you.  Imagine that!  Now I can eat their Premium Churned Light Raspberry chip ice cream.  You'll be happy to know that there are only (and I do say ONLY) 140 calories with ONLY 4 grams of fat.  That's 50%  less fat than their regular ice cream.

How sweet is that??  I don't know but I WILL have to research and get back with you. Check out their website for the whole new line of AWESOME flavors.

I'm really looking forward to sampling this.  I love raspberries and it has semi sweet chips... you just can't go wrong w/ chocolate and raspberries! *salivating now* 

Ok, as you were.  Stay tuned for my new adventures as a SAHM!

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